Taking Detailed Personal History
In this process, the answers you receive from every respective question would suggest whether your coachee would be at CAUSE or EFFECT.
1. Why are you here? What else? What else? Etc.
- Elicit all reasons for coachee from being here
2. How do you know you have this problem?
- Elicit a reality strategy and any diagnosis made
3. How long have you had it?
- Was there ever a time where you didn’t?
- What have you done about that?
4. What happened the first time you had this?
- What emotions were present?
5. What events have happened since then?
- What emotions were present?
6. In each of these events, what is the relationship between the event and your current situation in life?
7. Tell me about your parents, brothers, sisters, etc.
- What is the relationship between this person and your current situation?
8. Tell me about your childhood in relation to this problem.
9. Is there a purpose for this problem?
- Is there a reason for this problem? Ask your unconscious mind.
10. When did you choose to have this situation be created?
- Why? Ask your unconscious mind.
11. Is there anything your unconscious mind wants you to know, or is there anything you’re not getting to which, if you got it, would allow the problem to disappear?
12. Is it okay with your unconscious mind to support us in removing this problem today? And for it to allow you to have an undeniable experience of it when we are complete?